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Love is the foundation which creates exceptional relationship as a PARENT!
Last post by aroberts333, 02-09-2009 07-57 PM .. 2 replies

2/8/2009 5:09:02 PM

Issac Ben Avram

BELLS MILL ELEMENTARY SCHOOL

Unknown,  MD

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Love is the foundation which creates exceptional relationship as a PARENT!

When you give with love, you receive abundantly.  People actually want to listen to you when you give with love.  They want to respect you because they feel respected.  If you ever want a child to listen to you, just love them.  It is all with how you look at them,  how you command them and how you treat them in the process of asking them..


 


Children get trained very easily by adults, because adults are the caregiver of children.  It is important to realize how a child thinks and how we thought as children.


 


I am honestly considering to start a group called:  None-Profit for Young adults-  Teaching young adults parental skills.


 


I find that many adults that are young have no idea how to raise their newborn.  They have no idea how to raise a child.  In fact, in many ways they are a child themselves and have not mature with financial responsibility, emotional and mental responsibility to support a child.


 


 


I ask each and every one of you to consider this…


 


What if your child was just like you? Except their perspectives were from their level?


 


There is a great book out there called, “How to listen so that kids will talk and how to talk so that kids will listen.”


 


In this book you are told how a child may behave and why they would behave the way they do.


 


And I realize that the most important way to love a child is to love YOUR inner child.  You have a child inside of you.  And if you neglect how you really feel inside, you will probably neglect how your physical child feels.


 


Being a parent is a very special role.  We all parent to ourselves, and we parent each other, and most importantly we parent the young.


 


When you are considering to be a parent here are two things I want you to consider…


 



  1. Are you honestly ready physically, financially, spiritually, mentally and emotionally to have one?

  2. Will you be willing to grow your mindset, and acquire new understandings and skills that will teach you more about yourself? 


 


That is what children do my friend,  they teach you a thing or two about you..


 


Whenever you get angry, let that be a reminder that you have a conflict inside, and all your child did is show you what is going on inside you.  So what you then can say to that beautiful child that loves you with all their heart is,  I love you too, and thank you for showing me that right now it is time for me to be lovingJ


 


You see my friends..


 


When angered, it is even MORE necessary to love.  When fearful, it is even MORE necessary to love.


 


And when you give love, you receive love.


 


Last but not least, there are 2 songs I also recommend for you to listen to so that you get a broader understanding of the word “LOVE” for the sake of argument. 


 


Listen to Love is letting go of fear by Olivia Newton-John and Instrument of peace. 


 


If you would like to contact me and have a conversation here is my phone number:


 


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Here is my website if you would like to see how I am sharing wealth and creating financial abundance!


 


Much love to everyone and thank you for taking the time to READ my article.  Please share with whom you think it will benefit most in your life.


 


Love and light to you my new dear friend…


 


Issac Ben-Avram  2.08.09 3:00am


 


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2/9/2009 7:57:13 PM

aroberts333

BETHUNE BOWMAN ELEMENTARY SCHOOL

Orangeburg,  SC

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RE: Love is the foundation which creates exceptional relationship as a PARENT!

I totally agree with you---love is the absolute most important thing in this world!  And you are correct, so many young people today do not love because they have not been loved. (so sad)  As teachers, we have accepted a great responsibility---loving all of the children--even those who are not loveable.  NewSong sings a song that says, "Love is a verb"--  We must make the decision to love--unconditional love does not come natural to any of us--


Anyway, just wanted to chime in and say that I agree with you and hope that you will start that group to help young adults learn parenting skills.  If you help just one it will have been well worth your time. 


Thank you for sharing. And keep us updated on your progress.

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